Great sex dream with coworker! Very strange...

[stephsteph83]

So let me preface this by saying that this guy in my dream is nice, funny, and I do talk to him on a friendly level. He is by no way what I would consider myself attracted to. The one thing I really enjoy about him are his jokes.

In this dream we are going at it. The sex was very vivid and pleasurable. Although I won't go into the details because that would be innapropriate. My husband caught us cause we were on the couch in my living room. He was not mad by any means and it seemed like he had known about this for a while and might have urged the guy to sleep with me.

Everyone at the office knew we had been having sex even though I never told and he hadn't either. In the dream I thought he was so hot but in real life I find him to be average. Also, he was in love with me but I was not in love with him. I was still very in love with my husband.

I've had sex dreams before but usually I could figure out the reasoning behind their appearance. In this one I'm a little stumped cause he is really no one out of the ordinary.

[Varzandeh]

Hi,
Dream language is symbolic and should be interpreted.
Having sex with a known man means one will do the other a big favor a help nothing more, nothing lse.This may be intwo months time.
Sex with an unknown man means achieving a wish or a chance at work or study.
Dream language interpretation is an ancient science of allusions and pointing of the surrounded environment, as Mr. Einstein has said the events are like train stations which exist and we are moving towards them, these are prewritten destiny with some authority ( in decision making seconds) in very full details. This dream language should be translated, and interesting to know it is international and common for all human beings. But ignorance causes some misunderstanings.People were not aware of this language and always thought in a bad way , for example Mr. Freud said about sexual dreams it is because you have suppressed your sexual desires so misled everybody and some women dreamt about having sex with co-workers or another and thought they should do that, while it only meant he will do something for her, or some others dreamt had sex with the same sex and invented homosexual, while it meant the same ,Also some men dreamt his wife had sex with a man and didn't understand or a woman dreamt her partner had sex with a woman and didn't' understand ...etc.Do you see what catastrophes are caused by misunderstanding a language. About the approximate interpretation time table: Dreams at noon or exactly at midnight( In the summer time 13 at noon and 1 midnight else at 12)in the same day if past a few minutes, a few days later. Dreams at 10-11 in the morning in 15-30 days later. Also dreams at 3-4 in the evening in 1-2 months .Dreams in the sunset mostly are not truthful and are messed, they have no interpretations, Dreams at 4-5 in the morning in a few days to 2 months some dreams in the holy books( Josef dream of kneeling the sun and the moon and 11 stars)was interpreted after 20 years and other dreams of the Pharaoh's prisoners interpreted in the same day and after 7 years. Dream of Pharaoh about the 7 thin cows and 7 fat cows interpreted from the next year to 14 years. Also dreams in 6th of the month will interpret after 1-2 days, in 9th at the same day, in 10th after 20 days, in 13th after 9 days in 14th after 26 days and in 15th after 3 days, in 16th after 2 days and in 28th ,29th ,30th in the same day, but these are solar (Persian months and you should refer to a calendar or convert them) . Of course there are different kinds of dreams , like messy dreams which have no interpretations or deja vu dreams, or psychological dreams or dreams which are caused by bad food or drinks.

Bibliography:
1- Principles of the dreams, by Daniel the prophet (562-604 B.C) Peace be on him.
2-Divisions of the dreams, by Imam Sadeq peace be on him ( 663-798 A.C).
3- Generals of the dreams, by Mohammad ibn Syrin ( 690 A.C).

[unclesirbobbyrobson]

Well the dream maybe about your husband. It features him. Does he get irritated when you talk to other men?

Dreams can be very symbolic though. A dream like this may show how well you get along with someone... emotionally and generally rather than sexually. That a sexual union is smbolic of just getting along together.

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One way of telling how vital dreams are is to study people who are deprived of sleep and dreams.Sleep deprivation is very dangerous if it continues for extended periods. If you are deprived of sleep for several days then you will slip into madness. The reason for this is that sleep and dreams are linked to vital brain functions.

During the day we store up new thoughts and experiences within short term memory blocks. So if we are deprived sleep these become overloaded. The mind has no more space to store new feelings so these are merely forgotten.

During sleep vital brain waves emerge. Beta waves and theta waves are only ever detected within the brain at night. These help us process through those new feelings and experiences stored in short term memory. We integrate these new feelings into long term memory blocks. So if you do not sleep then you will not be updating your thoughts. You will not be building a bigger picture.

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[goodgirl87]

I don't understand dreams, it used to be that i would always dream about lesbian sex if I was having a sexual dream. I am female but not in any way interested in women. My dreams have never been about somebody I know. But now i keep having sexual dreams about the same male coworker. I can say he is a good guy, attractive yes, smart and responsible. But as far as interest goes, I don't really have that. I don't think about him much. I am single. But these dreams are vivid and always of him. Never anybody else. I would like to figure that one out haha.